Sometimes you and your brother or sister simply don’t get along. This can be a short-term problem or a recurring theme in your relationship. There are too many reasons that could potentially explain why you two are unable to get along, but there is only one solution. You must look at yourself without judgment to figure out what to do next. Just because someone is a family member doesn’t mean your personalities won’t conflict. It happens all the time. You can’t impose your desires and wishes for a harmonious relationship, and think magically they are going to transform into the loving caring person you need them to be. You have to accept them for who they are, and accept yourself for who you are. The only person you can change is yourself. Also, remember that just because you’re not getting along today, doesn’t mean that it will always be this way. Time changes all of us in some ways. I will say this, regardless of how your sibling treats you, try your best to treat them as you would like to be treated. You might be surprised at the results of this strategy.